Top 3 Mistakes "Nice Guys" Make!

Nice is a euphemism that people use for pushovers. The matter of the fact is, there is such a thing as going overboard on the nice factor, often causing women to run the other way. A woman is looking for a man who can assert himself, and still be that manly man without being too much of a jerk. It’s the perfect balance between being “nice” and being “not nice” that really attracts the woman. Rachel Khona, relationship and sex expert, provides the top 3 mistakes that “nice” guys make and how to avoid being that guy.  

• 1.     Trying to hard. When men chase after a woman, they need to make sure that they don’t revolve their lives around her. She will begin to sense that he is willing to do whatever she wants him to do, causing her to lose respect for him as a man and not seeing him as someone who can take care of her. Being assertive shows a woman that you can be a good protector
• 2.     Being too predictable: Women want to know that you will be able to keep the relationship exciting and fresh. She wants to know that she wont get bored with the same old things with her guy and that he will surprise her and keep her on her toes. Don’t let money be a limiting factor- there are many creative ways to keep things spontaneous on a low budget.
• 3.     Seeming fake. What a lot of guys think is nice or polite often comes off as disingenuous. A woman can sense if you are trying to be something or you’re trying to be yourself. “Nice guys” often play it safe in order to be likeable, but end up appearing more like a friend than a potential mate. If you are more honest with women you will have to deal with rejection but you will also find yourself in the friend zone a lot less.

  More About Rachel Khona:

 In addition to serving as contributing editor for Vagabond, Rachel Khona has written for Cosmopolitan, Inked, Treats, Richardson, Your Tango, Penthouse magazine, Ask Men and has been consulted for her dating knowledge on radio shows such as "Poundstone Power" and "Broadminded” on Sirius XM, "Love Zone USA", "Los Originales", as well as  How About We, Coed Magazine, Sex Lies and Dating, The Grindstone, What's Wear and Gloss Magazine. She has performed at the Word Bookstore, Inner Monologues, Standard Issue, and Speakeasy Stories.

 For more information, please visit www.rachelkhona.com .