In order for us to be what I call “perfect” parents, we simply need to stay away from option D!
What does this mean?
A: The textbook, best-case scenario should you have the time, resources, knowledge. Do A!
B: The good enough option, the 6/10 given ALL that is going on.
C: Do no harm, walk away, breathe, count to 10.
SOOOOOO existing among A-C is a GREAT PARENT! We do not need to be perfect. We are humans. And when we get to D, repair it, apologize, fix it.